A 3-day immersion into your BIG DEAL IDENTITY
Because the next level isn’t about more information, it’s about owning your brilliance, making the decisions you’ve been circling, and moving like the woman who already knows she’s about to have her biggest year to-date.
This is your sliding doors moment.
ON ONE SIDE
👉🏻 Another year of knowing what to do but still hesitating.
👉🏻 Still feeling secret imposter syndrome.
👉🏻 Still holding back on the things that you know would make the biggest difference.
ON THE OTHER
⚡️ Finally moving like the woman who knows she's a big fucking deal.
⚡️ Making decisions from self-trust, not anxiety.
⚡️ Audaciously taking up space.
⚡️ Owning your success from the inside out.
MANSION isn't just 3 days in the Lake District.
It's the moment you stop being the woman who waits for permission and become the one who gives it to herself.
Your BIG DEAL SELF
is already at the surface.
She’s waiting for you to acknowledge her and give her the wheel.
This entire experience has been curated so that you meet her, get to know her, and fall in love with her.
Because she is the solution you’ve been scrolling for.
And she is the identity that is going to create a year full of pinch me moments in life and business.
This isn’t a ‘wellness’ break, or a yoga retreat.
This isn’t about ‘cliques’ or ‘performance’.
This is a self-perception upgrade wrapped in the most luxurious experience, created just for you.
Because you fucking deserve it.
Come alone, bring a friend. All parts of you are welcome, and nothing we do here is compulsory. This is your experience, to enjoy as you wish - unapologetically, of course!.
Picture this...
A 1862 Georgian hall in Castle Carrock, located between the mountains and lakes of the Lake District National Park and wonders of the Scottish Borders.
Featured in national press and TV for good reason.
Six individually designed ensuite bedrooms
with Hypnos mattresses, roll-top baths where you can soak away years of putting everyone else first, and rainfall showers that'll spoil you for every hotel you stay in after this.
Cocktails in the orangery bar
while plotting your next big move.
Late-night conversations around the marble prep table
that feel more like therapy than small talk.
A drawing room with a 4-metre high fireplace
where you'll finally take up space without apologising for it.
This is where you stop saying "maybe next year" and start saying "why the fuck not now?"
No cramped conference rooms.
No budget hotel vibes. No settling for less than extraordinary.
Just you, in a place that mirrors back exactly how magnificent you are, surrounded by women who understand what you're building, finally giving yourself permission to be in spaces that match your ambition.
Three days in a place that was designed for people who refuse to play small.
Where conversations happen over exceptional wine in rooms with impossibly high ceilings.
Where you wake up to views of the North Pennines and remember what it feels like to prioritise yourself.
Because the external environment shapes the internal work. And this work deserves a setting that honours its importance.
Join Toyah and Leanne for an unforgettable 3-night retreat at a stunning pinch me is this real Georgian country house in the heart of the Lake District.
Thursday 2nd - Sunday 5th
October 2025
The weekend flows exactly as it should.
No rigid schedules. No forced networking. No pressure to share more than feels right.
Some moments will be structured, the kind of conversations that cut through years of overthinking in a single afternoon.
Others will be completely organic - breakthrough realisations over morning coffee, or strategies hatched during evening walks through the grounds.
This isn't about transformation exercises or workshop modules. It's about creating the conditions where your next level gets underway.
Permission Slip
Bring your laptop or leave it at home.
Capture content while you’re here or stay fully in the moment.
Map out your next offer, plan your next move, or just soak it all in from the hot tub.
This is YOUR retreat
The entire experience is catered by one of the region's most celebrated chefs.
Someone who doesn't just create exceptional meals, but curates entire culinary experiences tailored to every dietary requirement and preference. Think courses that surprise you, flavours that transport you, and meals that become part of the magic of the weekend.
And if you want to capture this version of yourself,
Our photographer is an artist who specialises in one thing: helping you see yourself the way others see you.
She has a gift for making you completely comfortable in your own skin and capturing the essence of who you really are - not just how you look, but the energy you carry. Friday mini shoots are available because this version of you deserves to be documented by someone who truly sees you.
Choose Your
Boudoir Darling
Super King, King, Twin and Sharing Options
from £999.
Meet Leanne
Title: Rock Star Coach
Famous For: Working with hundreds of women over the past 5.5 years to achieve “pinch me” moments.
Love Language: Helping women believe the fuck out of themselves and go after what they really want whether that is getting fully booked, quitting their corporate job, being more themselves online, booking international speaking gigs, or having an afternoon off per week with their hubby.
Leanne knows how quickly identity work can change everything. How one weekend, one conversation, one moment of being truly seen can shift years of headfuckery in an instant.
She's watched it happen over and over - in Zoom calls, yes, but there's something about being in the same room, the same energy, the same beautiful space that accelerates everything. Where you can feel the shift happening in real time.
Her energy is contagious. She makes people feel like anything is possible - because it fucking is. She sees who you really are before you do, and she won't let you leave this retreat without seeing her too.
She'll give you ideas and breakthroughs that you never even considered. The kind of perspectives that make you think "why the hell didn't I see that before?" and strategies that feel so obvious once she says them, you'll wonder how you've been operating without them.
This isn't about Leanne teaching you something new. It's about her holding space for you to remember what you already know. To feel what you're actually capable of. To have those conversations that become core memories - the ones where everything finally falls into place.
She's curated this entire experience because she knows what happens when the right women gather in the right space with the right energy.
Magic. Breakthrough.
The kind of shifts that change the trajectory of everything.
Meet Toyah
Job Title: Badass Retreat Host & Planner
Famous For: Curating delicious spaces for women to meet their souls light.
Love Language: Helping women see what they really want from their life & giving them space to give themselves permission to go and fucking get it! Whether that is a new home, romantic partner or reshaping your business to make it work for this version of you…
Toyah knows what happens when the right people come together in the right space. How fast the truth surfaces when you finally feel seen.
For the last 10 years, she’s watched women remember themselves around dinner tables, in walking conversations through the countryside, and during quiet moments with their feet curled under them and a cuppa in hand.
She knows how to ask the questions that cut through the noise. The ones that stop you in your tracks. The ones you didn’t realise you needed to hear.
Toyah isn’t here to impress you. She’s here to hold the version of you that already knows. The one who’s ready to move, to shift, to be witnessed in her full expression, messy, brilliant, and powerful as fuck.
She doesn’t care about surface-level. She cares about spaces where women finally feel safe enough to stop performing. Where you get to exhale. Where you get to remember who the fuck you are.
Her energy is grounding, but activating.
She’ll meet you exactly where you are and then hold you to the higher standard you secretly want.
Mansion isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about coming home to the version of you that’s been waiting to be chosen. And once you feel that, really feel it there’s no going back.
FAQs
Will this retreat actually move the needle for my business?
Hell yes. This isn’t fluff or filler. You’ll leave with the clarity, confidence, and energy to make bold decisions that actually change your trajectory. Because transformation happens when your mindset, identity, and environment align and that’s exactly what we’re curating here.
What’s included in the price?
Everything but your travel:
3 nights in a luxury Georgian stately home
All meals (crafted by a private chef) Snacks, drinks, and cocktail-hour magic
Transformational group sessions and conversations
Hot tub hangs, deep chats, quiet time, connection time
Luxury, Hand Crafted Goodie Bag
And a vibe you’ll wish you could bottle
Optional extras: Friday mini-shoot with our in-house photographer (available to book after purchase)
Can I come alone?
YES. Most people will. And you’ll leave feeling like you’ve known these women for years. Come solo, come with a friend — either way, this space is built for connection without cliques.
How do I get there?
The Mansion is in Castle Carrock, Cumbria, a short taxi from Carlisle train station, which is accessible from most major cities (especially if you're coming from London, Manchester, or Glasgow). We’ll connect you with other guests if you’d like to share a lift or taxi. You can also drive, parking is available on-site.
What’s the accommodation like?
Luxury with a capital L. Six individually designed ensuite bedrooms with plush Hypnos mattresses. Roll-top baths to soak away the day. Rainfall showers that make every morning feel like a fresh start. Spaces that honour the importance of your work and your rest.
Is there a dress code?
Wear what makes you feel like you; whatever that means. Whether that’s luxe loungewear, your power suit, or jeans and your favourite tee.
I’ve done coaching and retreats before. How is this different?
Because this is about your identity not just your business. This retreat digs deep into who you are at your core. You’ll have the time and space to stop playing small, stop hiding, and start living your truth loud and proud. Plus, it’s led by women who get the real, messy work behind success.